Would You Like To Meet A Lot Of Women?
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My fellow men ask me questions about "meeting women " and "how to understand women " and equivalent things frequently .
But the actuality of the matter for all of these sort of questions is there is no "dating guru" that can give you any better instruction than good old "experience".
But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to attract women?"
You get experience any way you can. Go wherever there are lots of women and just practice. Don't worry if you are successful. Just practice and get the experience yourself. In the end you will learn on your own and you will start getting dates. Yes that's right - no matter how unsightly, dumb, poor or old you are. If you just practice you will start getting dates.
And when you start getting dates. Then date, date, date, date, date!
It is often known as multiple or serial dating.
I guess I should explain. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sanely selecting a mate.
And I am not talking about men and women who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and frequent interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
What do you think most parents told their teen sons and daughters?
"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.
Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.
Most of us adults never actually followed good old mom and dad's advice. We alternatively met someone we kind of liked and hooked up with them and ignored the rest.
Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.
But bear in mind, there is a significant difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also unfortunately most people usually continue this habit of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.
We call this "settling".
We call this "compromising".
We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.
Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was exactly right for us.
Most of us didn't even understand our own temperament and what what would be a good match for us. We founded our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.
The cure is elementary. When you date and meet lots of people, sooner or later, you figure it out for yourself. It's a natural process. You get comfortable with people, you realize that everyone is different, and that different types of people like different types of people. Eventually you figure out what kind of person you are and what kind of people you get along with best.
And lo and behold, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and about and got a lot of experience.
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